
Definitions
Intimate Partner Violence
Abuse or aggression that occurs within a romantic relationship. This violence can vary in severity (single incident to chronic episodes) that last for multiple years. IPV can take several forms (e.g., physical violence, sexual violence, stalking, and psychological aggression). Unfortunately, many people experience IPV early in life, and the effects can persist throughout their lives. Approximately 16 million women and 11 million men who reported experiencing IPV during their lifetime stated that they first encountered it before the age of 18.
Types of Intimate Partner Violence Violence
Physical
Sexual
Emotional
Psychological Aggression
Threatening
Stalking

Interpersonal Violence
The World Health Organization (WHO) defines violence as follows: “The intentional use of physical force or power, threatened or actual, against oneself, another person, or against a group or community that either results in or has a high likelihood of resulting in injury, death, psychological harm, mal-development, or deprivation.
Physical
Verbal
Emotional
Psychological
Sexual
Victim Blaming
Threatening
Stalking
Financial
Men and boys can be victims of intimate partner violence, sexual violence, and stalking.
These forms of violence can happen in childhood, teen years, or in adulthood.

Healthy Relationships






Mutual Respect
Fighting Fair






Problem Solving
Trust






Good Communication
Honesty






Compromise
Self-Confidence






Individuality
Being a Role Model






Healthy Sexual Relationship
Understanding



Anger Control
Unhealthy Relationships

Control

Physical Violence

Hostility
Sexual Violence


Dishonesty

Disrespect


Intimidation
Dependence

How to Recognize IPV
Respecting oneself and others is essential for healthy relationships. In unhealthy relationships, one partner attempts to control and dominate the other physically, sexually, or emotionally. Unhealthy relationships are marked by characteristics such as disrespect and control. It is important to recognize signs of unhealthy relationships before they escalate.
Ways to Talk About IPV
Preventing IPV
Resources

Teen Program
24-Hour Hotline: 508-771-6507

CONNECT to End Violence
(Martha's Vineyard Community Services)
24-Hour Hotline: 508-696-7233


Children's Cove: The Cape and Islands Child Advocacy Center
Contact: 508-375-0410

Love is Respect
Contact: 866-331-9474

LGBT National Help Center

A Safe Place Nantucket
24-Hour Hotline: 508-228-2111

National Domestic Violence Hotline
Contact: 800-799-SAFE (7233)

LGBT National Hotline: 888-843-4564
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